Ruth Tomlinson-Brown

Celebrating the life of

Ruth Tomlinson-Brown

July 18, 1931 January 14, 2026
The Story of Ruth

A Journey of Compassion

Ruth Tomlinson-Brown was born on July 18, 1931, in Wilmington, Delaware, to Willard and Ruth Wilson. The second of three children, Ruth spent her early years in Delaware, where she began building the compassion, strength, and sense of responsibility that would define her life. She passed away peacefully in her sleep on January 14, 2026, in California, at the age of 94.

As a young woman, Ruth married Harvey "Tommy" Tomlinson, and together they started a family. In the early 1960s, the family relocated to California when Harvey was transferred to Castle Air Force Base in Atwater. California would become Ruth's permanent home for more than five decades. Merced became the community she served for decades, as she showed up, again and again, for her family and her community.

"Affectionately known as Triple G, her home was a place of warmth, laughter, and always enough food for anyone who walked through the door."
A Legacy of Love

Ruth began her career in healthcare as a Nurse's Aide—now known as a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA). In 1962, she started working at General Hospital, later known as Mercy Medical Center, where she served for 28 years until her retirement in 1990. She took pride in caring for others and left a lasting impression on colleagues, patients, and families alike.

Service extended far beyond Ruth's professional life. She was deeply involved in her community, advocating for children's scholarships, urging city leaders to improve neighborhood infrastructure, and supporting political candidates who championed the needs of the people. Ruth was a longtime, dedicated member of the Second Baptist Church, where she found strength in her faith and built a network of lifelong friends. She lived her faith through action, acting as a second mother to many children in her community through foster care and neighborhood guidance.

Affectionately known as "Triple G" (Great-Great Grandmother), Ruth's greatest joy was her expansive, loving family. She was a pillar of strength, a source of wisdom, and a beacon of love for five generations. Ruth's legacy of service, faith, and family will continue to inspire those who knew her.

Honoring Her Legacy

Memorial Fund

In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate contributions toward memorial expenses to help honor Ruth's remarkable 94 years of life.

The Homegoing

Service & Remembrance

THE SERVICE

Celebration of Life

Friday, February 6, 2026
1:00 PM

Christian Life Center
650 E. Olive Avenue
Merced, CA 95340

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GATHERING

The Repast

Following the Service

Fellowship Hall
Christian Life Center

Honored Attendants

Pallbearers

  • Roger Tomlinson, Jr.
  • Camron Griffin
  • Darnell Tomlinson
  • Brian Tomlinson
  • Virgil Broughton
  • Shawn Tomlinson

Honorary Pallbearers

  • Abbayael Isreal
  • Antione Hubbard
Guestbook

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Reflections

In Her Memory

When tomorrow starts without me, And I’m not there to see; If the sun should rise and find your eyes All filled with tears for me. I wish so much you wouldn’t cry The way you did today; While thinking of the many things We didn’t get to say. I know how much you love me, As much as I love you; And each time that you think of me, I know you’ll miss me too. But when tomorrow starts without me, Please try to understand, That an angel came and called my name, And took me by the hand.
Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there. I did not die.
Acknowledgements

The family of Ruth Tomlinson-Brown wishes to express our deepest gratitude for the many acts of kindness, comforting messages, and prayers during our time of bereavement. Your love has been a source of great strength. May God continue to bless each of you.