Celebrating the life of
Ruth Tomlinson-Brown was born on July 18, 1931, in Wilmington, Delaware, to Willard and Ruth Wilson. The second of three children, Ruth spent her early years in Delaware, where she began building the compassion, strength, and sense of responsibility that would define her life. She passed away peacefully in her sleep on January 14, 2026, in California, at the age of 94.
As a young woman, Ruth married Harvey "Tommy" Tomlinson, and together they started a family. In the early 1960s, the family relocated to California when Harvey was transferred to Castle Air Force Base in Atwater. California would become Ruth's permanent home for more than five decades. Merced became the community she served for decades, as she showed up, again and again, for her family and her community.
"Affectionately known as Triple G, her home was a place of warmth, laughter, and always enough food for anyone who walked through the door."A Legacy of Love
Ruth began her career in healthcare as a Nurse's Aide—now known as a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA). In 1962, she started working at General Hospital, later known as Mercy Medical Center, where she served for 28 years until her retirement in 1990. She took pride in caring for others and left a lasting impression on colleagues, patients, and families alike.
Service extended far beyond Ruth's professional life. She was deeply involved in her community, advocating for children's scholarships, urging city leaders to improve neighborhood infrastructure, and supporting political candidates who championed the needs of the people. Ruth was a longtime, dedicated member of the Second Baptist Church, where she found strength in her faith and built a network of lifelong friends. She lived her faith through action, acting as a second mother to many children in her community through foster care and neighborhood guidance.
Affectionately known as "Triple G" (Great-Great Grandmother), Ruth's greatest joy was her expansive, loving family. She was a pillar of strength, a source of wisdom, and a beacon of love for five generations. Ruth's legacy of service, faith, and family will continue to inspire those who knew her.
In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate contributions toward memorial expenses to help honor Ruth's remarkable 94 years of life.
Friday, February 6, 2026
1:00 PM
Christian Life Center
650 E. Olive Avenue
Merced, CA 95340
Following the Service
Fellowship Hall
Christian Life Center
Soft Music
Pastor Dunham
"Take Me to the King" – Sister Gwen Amey-Hollins
Sharon Morris
Antione Hubbard, Sr.
Family and Friends Reflections (2 minutes)
"Going Up Yonder" – Sister Gwen Amey-Hollins
Joyce Dale
Pastor Dunham
Releasing of doves will take place at the church following the service.
On behalf of the family
"Unforgettable" – Nat King Cole & Natalie Cole (instrumental, recorded)
Piano – Sister Gwen Amy
Immediately following the service
Family Center (located behind the church)
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The family of Ruth Tomlinson-Brown wishes to express our deepest gratitude for the many acts of kindness, comforting messages, and prayers during our time of bereavement. Your love has been a source of great strength. May God continue to bless each of you.